From show co-creator Greg Weisman:
From Kaldur's POV, he is - at minimum - polysexual, which is not to say that he isn't pansexual, but he's never YET fallen for anyone that didn't/doesn't identify as male or female. He tries not to label.
To date, Kaldur has only ever been truly in love twice: with Tula and with Wyynde. He's dated other people, including Rocket. But he's only ever been in love the two times. So he's not defining his sexuality beyond the fact of these two people.
Please keep in mind as an old, white cis-male heterosexual, I'm trying to keep up to speed with all the current terminology. Emphasis on "I'm trying." Please forgive me if I'm not always caught up within my bubble.
@BrandonVietti and @kharypayton and I have long known that Kaldur'ahm is bi or poly, if not pan.
To be clear, any indecisiveness about whether Kaldur is pansexual comes out of the fact that he's still writing his own "story."
I think that settles the matter.
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